Saturday, May 7, 2011

THE ALREADY TAKEN MENACE

He is 5feet 8 inches just like you love them. He has everything that makes your head spin when you see him. And yes you been single for the past twenty four years of your life. Surely when this Mr. Have it all hits on you he is definitely Mr. right for you or not. Aspecial way for a prayer answer. Mr. have it all knows how to treat a lady. He has the education, the money, oh and that amazing sense of humour. He runs his affairs in the open and so you think mr. have it all has been waiting for a mrs have it all who is you. One year into the relationship and no signs of anything serious. He is mr. right for you definitely he should be noticing your biological clock is ticking.
Some friend informs you that his is a characteristic of a taken man. You start digging into his life and you find that just there in the open he is married to a beautiful woman and has two children. Heartbroken you break off the relationship vowing to never get hooked up again but then again he is your first love so we still wait for relationship two.
Your folks also think you should be settling down and so do your friends. Since you have been single for one and a half years you have definitely moved on. You decide to get into the dating game once more. Good luck is not on your side because once more you fall for the already taken man. One is left to wonder arent characteristics of taken men the same or do you have a thing for attracting taken men?
You decide that relationships are just not cut for you because a taken man will never be yours after all no matter how much he says he loves.
I thought there is a prince charming out there for everyone. Its just patience that pays, mmmh you can choose to sit there and wait for cupid to strike the arrow your way or you can just have the mentality all good men are taken. Yes i heard a girl who is dating a taken man say...."Am not number two, number two is all in the mind, to him i will always be number one in my own right". well i reserve my comment. As i sit and watch the not taken messing with the taken..